An iMessage mediator for breakups

two exes, two agents,
zero awkward conversations.

Moving out after a breakup? Text gudtrms. You and your ex each get an AI advocate that splits the lease, the deposit, the couch and the dog for you. It keeps your secrets, stands up for you, and gets you both a fair deal in writing.

Get started iMessage · no app · no group chat
You only you and your agent

I can't go over $1,600. And Biscuit stays with me.

Got it. That stays between us.

$1,615 is over your limit. I said no.

$1,390 and Biscuit stays. I said yes.

What crosses the line

Round 1Round 2
You keep the place, Biscuit and the TV. The TV goes to your ex instead.
You pay $1,615You pay $1,390
YouAcceptReject ExAcceptReject

No reasons. No free text. Just a yes or a no.

Your ex only them and their agent

I want the couch, and I need to be out by the 30th.

Noted. Your ex will never see this.

Couch is yours, out Nov 30. I said yes.

And the TV too. Still yes.

Why gudtrms

Married couples get mediators. Now you do too.

Your secrets stay yours

Tell your agent your real budget and your dealbreakers. Your ex never sees them, not even after the deal.

Fair, by the math

A neutral mediator splits everything so you each end up the same amount above your fair share, by your own numbers. Nobody wins by arguing louder.

It talks so you don't have to

Your agent does the back-and-forth and stands up for you. It won't agree to a deal over your budget or past a dealbreaker. Ever.

Costs less than a dollar

A mediator bills by the hour. A whole gudtrms case runs on less than a dollar of AI credits. It works over iMessage, so there's no app to install.

How it works

Four steps, zero face-to-face.

  1. 1

    Text START

    Sign up below and we'll open Messages with it ready to send.

  2. 2

    We invite your ex

    One text from us, never a follow-up. You don't have to message them at all.

  3. 3

    Tell your agent the truth

    What you want, what you'd pay, what you won't budge on. All of it stays private.

  4. 4

    Reply YES

    Your agents settle it, and you both get the same written agreement to confirm.

gudtrms agreement · Case 4F7K

  • Alex keeps the apartment and the lease. Sam moves out by Nov 30.
  • Alex pays Sam $1,390: a $640 buyout plus Sam's $750 deposit share.
  • Sam keeps the couch and the TV.
  • Biscuit lives with Alex. Sam has Biscuit every other weekend.
  • Spotify gets cancelled.
Alex YES Sam YES